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38
million
children under age18
(54% of all children in America) suffer daily from either physical
father absence or emotional-spiritual father absence.
"He
will turn the hearts of the fathers to their children"
- Malachi 4:6
God’s vision for Fathers
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THE
INCREDIBLE JOURNEY
I want to share with you a story - a story of an
incredible journey that God has taken me, and every person who
is part of the Great Dads Team, on over the past five years.
I (Bob Hamrinj will narrate the journey because I am the only
one who has been along for its full 1,460 days and thus can
best capture the excitement, the images, and the drama of the
journey. Actually the journey goes back much longer than that
for Great Dads was first born in my heart on June 19, 1977 -
that extraordinary Fathers Day when I brought my first child,
my son Eric, home from the hospital. Great Dads was born in
my mind on March 6, 1994 when the name Great Dads first came
to me as I wrote in my journal, "So why not focus on dads
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a Great Dads enterprise."
And it was born into the world on December 4, 1996 when it was incorporated
in the Commonwealth of Virginia. In these first five years, many things
have happened that were part of our initial vision document and many
things have happened as a delightful surprise from God. But there
has been one constant throughout: God's faithfulness! I know this
ministry is on His heart because He has made it clear in His word,
in the final verse of the
Old Testament: "He will turn the hearts of the fathers to their
children". That is Gods vision for fathers and it is the vision
of Great Dads. So please understand this: in everything that Is shared
in this story of Great Dads' incredible journey we give God all the
praise, honor and glory for He has been our faithful guide throughout.
Transformed
Lives of Dads and Children
The Great Dads story is one of powerful images of the transformed
lives of fathers and children forever etched into my mind.
- The image of a father of three children telling
me that he didn't want to come to the seminar, he planned to leave
after 30 minutes unless he heard something that really moved him,
and that now, after completing the seminar, he KNOWS for the first
time since his father’s suicide many years before that he
will not commit suicide as he always thought he would
- The image of two grown married daughters “crying like babies”
when they received the commitment Pledge from their dad and telling
him, “Dad, this is the best thing you’ve ever given
me.”
These images convey the heartbeat of the changes occurring in individual
lives because of this ministry. Remember these “heartbeats”
as we look together as the “big picture” of what God
has accomplished in this, His ministry, in the first five years:
- 5500 fathers have been trained in The 6 Basics of Being a Great
Dad
- Nearly 14,000 children have received from their father a lifelong
Commitment Pledge to be Great Dad - a tangible symbol of the father’s
heart being turned to his child.
- Our associates team has grown from 0 on January 1, 1998 to 112.
- Our staff has grown from 1 in the 2 ½ years to 5
- We have presented 150 seminars in churches of all major denominations
and most major Army bases and to dads of all ethnic groups, rich
or poor, inner city, suburb, or small town
- We have gone from a one person operation with a tiny budget in
the first year to being today one of the top five ministries to
men in America (in terms of number of men trained) and one of the
top two national organizations providing grassroots training to
fathers.
To God be all the praise, the honor, and the glory.
THOSE WE SERVE
The Children
The story of this incredible journey rightfully
begins with the focus on the children and the dads, for these are
the people that Great Dads was created to serve. The vision for
Great Dads, cited above, is to see the hearts of fathers turned
to their children. This is a HUGE challenge for Father Absence is
rampant in America: 38 million children under the age of 18(54 percent
of all children) suffer daily from either physical father absence
or emotional-spiritual father absence. Each of these children has
their very own personal heart cry – often borne silently –
for the heart of their father.
It is for all children – and in particular
these children of absent fathers that Great Dads exists and is committed
to serving. One of our greatest thrills is when we see a dad give
to his child the gift so many children desire – the heart
of their father toward them in the form of a lifelong Commitment
Pledge to be a Great Dad he presents to his child.
The Dads
Who
are the dads we serve? They are dads of every walk of life –
dads who are 16 and dads who are in their sixties; rich suburban
dads and poor inner city dads; dads in prisons and dads in the military;
dads of 13 children and many men who aren’t even dads yet;
married dads, divorced dads, and step dads; Caucasian, African-American,
Latino, and Asian dads; dads who are quite confident and dads who
are scared to death. In short, the dads we serve are any and all
dads who desire to be a better dad – whom we hope to inspire
to be a Great Dad.
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